The “Voo Breath” with a Partner
- Sit beside or face someone you feel safe with.
- Place one hand on your chest and one on your belly.
- Inhale slowly through your nose, then exhale with a low, vibrating hum: “voooooo.”
- Repeat for 6–10 breaths.
The humming vibrates and
stimulates the vagus nerve, while the physical presence of a safe person signals to your brain that it is okay to relax. Do this to decompress with kids/teens, reconnect after a conflict, or calm performance nerves.
The Physiological Sigh by Yourself
- Inhale deeply through your nose.
- Just before you think you’re full, take a second, quick "top-off" inhale.
- Exhale as slowly as possible through your mouth.
- Repeat 2–4
times.
This specific breathing pattern re-inflates the tiny air sacs in your lungs and quickly balances CO2 levels, signaling your brainstem to lower your stress arousal immediately. Use this for sudden anxiety spikes, anger, or clearing your head before a big meeting.
Tip: You can use these as Inner Compass micro-skills — Connect (co-regulation), Rest (sigh), Awareness (orienting).